I raro i te ture o nāianei o Vietnam, te faaipoiporaa e te whakamutu i roto i tetahi o te whai ake nei ngā take: rānei te tau kua mate ranei, kua korerotia mate ranei te whakarereI raro i te ture o nāianei o Vietnam, te faaipoiporaa e te whakamutu i roto i tetahi o te whai ake nei ngā take: rānei te tau kua mate ranei, kua korerotia mate ranei te whakarere. Te faaipoiporaa whakamutunga ko te taiao putanga no te faaipoiporaa e te tikanga he whaiaro hononga i waenganui i rua tangata. I roto i tenei take, Vietnamese ture anake whakarite whaiaro, me te taonga hopearaa, ai, i roto i te parau tumu, a, no rānei te tau kua mate, te ora, te hoa faaipoipo i te mea e tika ana ki te oaoa i te mana whaiaro i taua faaipoiporaa, pērā i te tika, ki te ingoa whānau, homai te ingoa, te raraunga, me te noho, ahakoa o ahakoa taua ora tau remarries. E pā ana ki te taonga, i raro i te Ture, i runga i te Faaipoiporaa e te Utuafare, te tane me te wahine, e tika ana ki te riro ia atu ngā taonga e ai ki te ture tikanga i runga i te kainga tupu.
A, no te rānei te tau kua mate ranei, kua korerotia mate i te marae, te noho tau, ka te whakahaere i to ratou āhuatanga noa, ki te kahore i reira i tetahi atu tangata kei te whakaritea i roto i te decedent o te faufaa ki te whakahaere i te whenua ranei, i te kainga i whakaae ana ki te whakarite i tetahi atu tangata ki te whakahaere i te whenua.
Kei hea te whenua me kia wehea rite ui, me te whenua wehenga e tino pā i te oraraa o te ora i te hoa, me te utuafare, te ora faaipoipo ka whai i te tika ki te tono te kooti ki te whakatau i te estate hea ki te e oaoahia e ko te kainga, engari e kore e ki te tukua te whenua wehenga mo te hoatu i te roanga. Ki te mua e te roanga i whakaritea e te kooti te ora hoa faaipoipo e faaipoipo i tetahi atu tangata, i te tahi atu kainga ka whai i te tika ki te tono i te marae ki te wehe i te whenua. Te wahi i te tau kua korerotia mate i te marae, i te faaipoiporaa e te whakamutu i rite ki o te wa i te marae o te whakatau e te pānga ā-ture. Ki te muri, ko te tangata nana nei i korerotia mate i te marae hoki, i te marae ka te take te whakatau ki te whakakore i te mate whakapuakanga. Ki tona ona hoa, kua kore ano te marena i tetahi atu tangata, i to ratou hononga faaipoiporaa e fakanatula faaho'ihia mai. I roto i te take ana ona hoa faaipoipo e faaipoipo i tetahi atu tangata, te muri whakapumautia te hononga faaipoiporaa e te tango pānga ā-ture. Te faaipoiporaa e taea e te whakamutu i te tika ki te whakarere, e tonoa mā te faaipoiporaa hoa ranei whakaae ki runga ki e rua hoa, me te mohio e te marae i roto i tona whakawa ranei te kingi. Na, te faaipoiporaa, te whakamutunga i roto i tenei take ko te willful i te ture o tetahi ranei e rua hoa faaipoipo ki te whakatau o te marae i te mātau ki te noho, me te hanga i te whakatau whakamutunga i runga i te whakarere. E te whakarere he whakanohoia i raro i te mana o te Kāwanatanga i roto i ngā kōti whai ana ki te tiaki i te tika ngākau nuitanga o te melo o te utuafare, me te hapori. Ki te whakaaro ki te whakarere, Vietnamese ture e hāngai ana i runga i te nui e rua ngā take: ko te ture turanga mo te whakarere, me te ture hopearaa o te whakarere. Whenua mō te faataaraa i te auraa mau huru (tikanga) i whakaritea e te ture me anake ki te putanga o te taua āhuatanga e taea e te marae tukua e te faataaraa. Tei runga i te āhuatanga pāpori i roto i ia wā, i te ture kua whakaritea motuhake whenua mo te whakarere. o whiringa, nō te tau, mutu poto i te whakatau i te maha o ngā akiaki raruraru ki te tirohanga ki te wewete i te wahine, ia ia te pa ki runga ki te tane-te wahine te rite i roto i te faataaraa i roto i te kawa tikanga, a ka okioki te nuinga i runga i te hapa, o te rōpū.
Te reira i tohua e te e whai ake nei noa i te whenua hoki e rua te tane me te wahine, ki te tono mō te whakarere: a, No te te whenua tuatahi o te ture i runga i te faaipoiporaa e te utuafare puta i roto i te tau, ā, ko te turanga hoki i whakarere i whakahuatia i roto i te hou, me te whānui tikanga, i waho i te ingoa o te wehe.
I raro i te Ture, a, no te te tane me te wahine whakaae ki te whakarere ranei, no tetahi o ratou e tonoa i te faataaraa, te kōti ki te ui ki te take o te ketanga i waenganui i te te tane me te wahine, rite te pai kia rite ki te tumu o to ratou whakarere. Ki te kore te hoa e rua whakaae ki te whakarere, te wā katoa o te whakarere, e tonoa ana e rānei i te tane te wahine a ki te kia te tuatahi ki te rongo e te kōti. Ki te kahore to ratou take i na nui e to ratou conjugal te ora e kore e taea te roa te faaipoiporaa whāinga ko te kore e tae, i te marae i taea te tukua e te faataaraa. te āhuatanga ko a te tino nui, te conjugal te ora e kore e taea te roa, me te faaipoiporaa whāinga e kore e taea e te uru. Tenei te tikanga e te ketanga i waenganui i te tane me te wahine, e kore e taea kia noho, me te conjugal te aroha, me te mana'oo kore te tīariari, kua pāngia te ora noa, o nga melo o te utuafare, me te whakatairanga i o ratou tamariki, a i taua faaipoiporaa, e kore e taea e e tonu rite te pūtake mō te hanga i te manapori, te pai, te hari, me te tauwhiro i te mau utuafare - te opuaraa hopea o te faaipoiporaa. Na, e hāngai ana i runga i te kiko whakaaro, Vietnamese whakarato ana i te ture whenua mo te whakarere. Te wā katoa o te whakarere, me te kia adjudicated e te marae i roto i te whāinga tikanga i runga i te pūtake o te tika te aromatawai o te mahi āhuatanga o o ratou conjugal te ora. te whakarere, kei te tonoa e rānei hoa ranei whakaae ki runga ki e rua hoa moe. Ki te whakarere, e tonoa ana e te wahine ranei, e te tane, te marae me te puta ki te tūhuratanga, me te conciliation i mua i te adjudication.
Te kooti me te rapu i te mehua mo conciliation i roto i te tikanga ki te tauturu i te tokorua mārama te ite i to ratou kawenga ki a ratou tamariki.
Conciliation ko te kore anake i te ture te mahinga engari ano hoki te whakaata i te Vietnamese o te iwi morare. I te marae ka tukua e whakarere anake, no te deeming e te conjugal te ora, ko te kia kukū, me te nui e te reira e kore e taea te roa e te whāinga o te faaipoiporaa e kore e taea e te uru.
I roto i te take te whakarere, ko te whakaae ki runga ki e rua o te tane me te wahine, te marae, ka tukua e te faataaraa ki te conciliation kore, me te ki te ite e ngā taha e rua he pono taku e hiahia ana ki te whakarere.
te wahi i te tau o te tangata i te hunga i korerotia mate i te marae tano no te faataa, i te marae ka tukua e te taua whakarere. Te faataaraa i te hoê taonga wehenga, me te tautoko mo te rawakore hoa i muri i te faataaraa i te tautoko o ngā tamariki ki te rite te ture i te mau hopearaa. I raro i te ture o nāianei, te wehenga o te taonga i runga i whakarere, ka whakaae ki runga ki te taha o te rōpū whai wāhi.
Ki te kahore he whakaaetanga ka taea te tae, te mea ai te ratou i tono ki te kooti ki te whakatau. Te taonga whaiaro o te rōpū ka riro tera i ana ia mana He hoa te tangata nona te taonga whaiaro, me te whakamatau i roto i te aronga o te tahi atu mau hoa, na roto i te kawenata, me ngā tuhinga, e taua taonga, ko tona ranei tona ake.
Ki te kore, taua rawa e te noa te taonga o te tane me te wahine e rua a ka wehea e ai ki te whai i te mau parau tumu: Noa te taonga e, i roto i te parau tumu, e te wehea ki e rua, tango ki pūkete te tahi i te rōpū o te tikanga ora, taonga mana, me te takoha ki te hanga, te tiaki, me te whanaketanga o te taua taonga. Ohipa ko te whakaaro pāpori mahi ki te moni Ki te te tiaki i ngā tika, te mana me ngā ngākau nuitanga o te wahine, te tamariki iti ranei, te pakeke, te tamariki te hunga e monokia ranei, kua ngaro ratou ā-ture ranei te mahi i te āheinga, me te whai i kahore rawa ki te ora i runga i.
Ki te te tiaki i te tika ngākau nuitanga o ia rōpū i roto i te hanga, te mahi, me te ki te tikanga i whakaaetia e ngā rōpū e taea e tonu ki te hanga me te pakihi.
I roto i te take he whakarerea tokorua oraraa tahi ki to ratou mau metua, ki to ratou taonga i roto i te taonga katoa o te utuafare e kore e taea te tāutuhia ratou, ka homai he wahi o te hapu o taonga, tei runga i to ratou takoha ki te hanganga, ki te tiaki me te whanaketanga o te utuafare o noa, ki te taonga. Te mōhiotanga o te wahi i te utuafare o noa taonga mo te tokorua, ka whakaae runga i te tokorua, me to ratou utuafare ki te kore, ka kia tono te kooti ki te whakatau. Ki te whakarere, ki te wahine ranei, e te tane, i te oraraa i roto i te rawakore, ia ranei ia ki te kia tono i te ex-hoa ki te whakarato i te tautoko kia rite ki tana i tona āheinga. Te tautoko i te nui me te roa, ka whakaae ki runga ki te rua ngā rōpū ranei faaoti i runga i te marae, ki te kore ratou ki te tae te whakaaetanga. I muri i whakarere, te tane me te wahine e noho koutou titauhia ki te titiro i muri i, te tango i te tiaki o te, te whakaako, me te whakaara i to ratou tamariki iti, me te pakeke, te tamariki te hunga hauā, kua ngaro ratou ā-ture ranei te mahi i te āheinga, me te whai i kahore rawa ki te ora i runga i. Te hoa faaipoipo nei e kore e tika te whakaara i te tamariki e te herenga ki te whakarato i te tautoko mo te tamariki. Te tane me te wahine, e whakaae i runga i te tangata tika i whakaara ake i te tamariki me te mana, me ngā mahi o ia rōpū ki to ratou tamariki ki te kore, i te marae ka whakatau ki te tautapa i ngā tamariki ki tētahi rōpū ki te kawe ia ratou ake, e hāngai ana i runga i te tamariki o ngā ngākau nuitanga i roto i te ngā āhuatanga katoa. Ki ngā tamariki, he pakeke tonu i te iwa tau te pakeke, i to ratou hiahia kia tangohia ki pūkete. Tamariki i raro i te toru tau ka whakaritea ki te whaea mo te poipoi ki te kore te kore whakaae ki runga ki te rua ngā rōpū. Mo te ngākau nuitanga o ngā tamariki, i te tono o tetahi ranei e rua ngā rōpū, ko te kooti ka taea e te whakatau ki te huri i te tangata tika i whakaara ake i te tamariki ki te ia ranei ia kua rahua ki te whakarite i te ngākau nuitanga o ngā tamariki i roto i ngā āhuatanga katoa ranei, ki te hiahiatia ana e ngā tamariki pakeke ki tonu i te iwa tau te pakeke. I muri i whakarere, te tangata nei e kore e tika te whakaara i te tamariki ka whai i te tika ki te haere ki a ratou tamariki, kahore i tukuna ai e te tangata. Panoramically, ki te whakarere tetahi o te tino tairongo, me te uaua take i roto i te utuafare, me te ture te ora i roto i Vietnam. E ai ki te tau-tawhito, ngā kōrero tuku iho o te Vietnamese, whakarere te kua whakaaro he blameful āhuatanga. Te faufaa tonu piri ki te whakapūmautanga o te whānau me te i roto i Vietnamese te mau utuafare i reira kua kore mārama-tapahia te rerekētanga i waenganui i te whaiaro, me te noa te taonga o te tane me te wahine. I te hakari, lawmakers i roto i te Vietnam kua piri faufaa ki te kōrero tuku iho, te hinengaro, me te mahi o te Vietnamese i roto i te tikanga ki te āwhina i te ture tomo ki te ora, me te whai wāhi ki te whakataunga o te pātai o te whakarere, i te mea i runga i te ara i roto i te hou Vietnamese te hapori, i te wā e tiaki i te pai o ngā kōrero tuku iho me te morare o te Vietnamese te iwi.
